You think you want abundance but you don’t really

You think you want abundance but you don’t really. I bet you’ve never really given this serious thought. I bet that abundance for you is an idea that sounds attractive. But is it? Is it really? Let’s take a look. You don’t want an abundance of...

Why coaches and helpy-types struggle to make money

People who like to help others are screwed. This is why so many coaches and helpy-types struggle to make money. When you seek to offer help, you find it hard to ask for help. When you like to support others, you don’t want to be a burden. When you wish to give, you...

The first step in reducing fear

The first step in reducing fear We tend to fear the things we hate. So an important first step in reducing fear is to look at the thing we fear from a different perspective. Fears are like everything in life; they have a good side and a bad side. Nothing IS bad: there...

Needle phobia gone in 5 minutes

In the early days of using the Head Trash Clearance Method I was still using it tentatively because I was in testing mode. And then the perfect opportunity presented itself. The day I decided to lose my needle phobia I had just found out that I was pregnant and was at...

Why fear is a good thing

Fear has a bad reputation and a lot of people think it’s a bad thing. But it can be a good thing too. We could use our fears to guide us to higher ground. Every thing has a ‘good’ and ‘bad’ side We forget that things aren’t intrinsically...

The psychology of pain, with Dr. Gary Keil

Pain is interesting. At least I find it interesting. And I guess that comes from my work in helping women prepare for birth. Pain comes up a lot! In fact it comes up too much in my opinion. More than it should do. And this is because a fear of pain is probably one of...