Love planning? Maybe you don’t!

I thought I loved planning. But it was all a lie! I’ve done a lot of planning and I think I’m pretty good at all sorts of planning shenanigans. From road trips across foreign lands and island-hopping holidays to secret birthday parties and complex...

How to stop getting distracted

Getting stuff done and generally being productive requires the mind to stay focussed on singular tasks until they are complete. Sounds fairly straightforward, right? And yet this is where most people fall down, including you. Why? Simple. You get distracted...

Struggle with a fear of uncertainty

A fear of uncertainty is something that a lot of people struggle with and when it hits dizzying heights it can begin to contribute to anxiety. Right now, we’re seeing this a lot. Understandably. We all experience uncertainty in our lives, some people more than...

Self-care isn’t what you think it is

I get really irate when I read posts about self-care. It’s not because I disagree with the idea of self-care, because I don’t. I think self-care is essential. It’s because most people have no idea what self-care is. Self-care is not...

Disorganised & chaotic to-do list?

Maybe sometimes you feel like you’re winning and you’re on fire. You’re ticking things off your to-do list like your life depends on it. And other times it just seems like your to-do list has a mind of its own and is fiendishly out of control. Do you...

How our ability to delegate can be sabotaged

What is actually going on when we self-sabotage? A lot of people think that it’s because of our fears, especially fears that we might not be fully aware of. And in some cases, yes fears are responsible for self-sabotage. But in most cases it’s down to a conflict in...