People who like to help others are screwed. This is why so many coaches and helpy-types struggle to make money. When you seek to offer help, you find it hard to ask for help. When you like to support others, you don’t want to be a burden. When you wish to give, you...
The frustrating thing about self-sabotage is that we feel we’re stuck with it. That we can’t get rid it. But that’s not the case. It is possible to eliminate self sabotage, and to do so pretty quickly. Self-sabotage is when we prevent ourselves from...
The first step in reducing fear We tend to fear the things we hate. So an important first step in reducing fear is to look at the thing we fear from a different perspective. Fears are like everything in life; they have a good side and a bad side. Nothing IS bad: there...
I worked with a coach who wanted to ditch her job and do her coaching full-time. She wanted to be the best coach she could be and had invested over $30,000 in getting trained in All.The.Things. She’d even persuaded her husband to let them re-mortgage their house so...
I bet you have no idea how much you actually self-sabotage. I’ll tell you how many sabotaging blocks you have in a bit (it’s way more than you think!) We all self-sabotage, some more than others obvs. Here are some clues that you’re sabotaging… Being able to spot the...
